Wow, love this, and this is so relevant to my life rn too. I've had so many situations where I misread a text that didn't get answered as passive agressiveness, when it was actually just the person being busy and that's all. It requires a lot of communication to make sure each person understands each other's intentions though, and that's the part I hate the most. But I guess I just gotta get better at sitting in that discomfort.
"is this something i know or something i've decided" is a genuinely useful gut check.. most of the fake urgency i see in orgs is actually someone avoiding the discomfort of not having decided yet
Wow, love this, and this is so relevant to my life rn too. I've had so many situations where I misread a text that didn't get answered as passive agressiveness, when it was actually just the person being busy and that's all. It requires a lot of communication to make sure each person understands each other's intentions though, and that's the part I hate the most. But I guess I just gotta get better at sitting in that discomfort.
Thanks so much for sharing Dido!
"is this something i know or something i've decided" is a genuinely useful gut check.. most of the fake urgency i see in orgs is actually someone avoiding the discomfort of not having decided yet
Yes. That’s a great point.
Great read!
Thank you!
Great insight.
Thank you!